Submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use. Submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others. Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men. A strong man needs a woman at His feet, who is truly His. Anything else is less than His fulfillment.
Know that wealth, sex-delights, power, learning are all bondage. This is the beginning of wisdom.
Most Welcome, Bondage, for tho art a way, I think to liberty.
— William Shakespeare